Q. I have developed a rash with reddish cracks or breaks in the skin where my genitals and thighs meet. It has happened earlier too and the doctor said that it was simply folliculitis. I also had rashes on my penis. Could this be an STI such as herpes? I have been in a trusting relationship for a year now. I am afraid it might be herpes. However, there are no fluid-like sores present. My girlfriend had a herpes infection about three years ago of the type that causes warts. I was wondering if she could still spread the virus, in spite of not having any symptoms for the past two years. I have read some contradictory stories about how one can be freed of the virus after having no symptoms for a year. Others say that the virus stays lifelong. I am worried. Please advise.
A. If your partner had herpes genitalis about three years ago, she may still be passing the virus in the genital secretions more so during an attack of herpes, which may not be visible on the external genitalia. If you have not used condoms consistently and regularly during sex, there is the possibility of your contracting herpes. The problem of rashes in the groin area and genitalia could be herpes, but other possibilities such as candidiasis, contact dermatitis, etc. need to be ruled out through a clinical examination by a dermatologist.
